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haha..aku pun masalah gakkk... aku tak tahu apa aku buat....utk pengetahuan anda,aku adalah pendiam terkenal kat kalangan keluarga aku,sepupu2 aku,anak saudara aku,mak cik n pak cik n member2... 
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antara21
Falcon
Jedi
de-ciloq
iznie
redze
mjmax15
funkwasabi
shambahar
rinoa1812
MalaYneuMaya
3vilngineer
zul_pfs
mis3catz
crazy_labelle
pekwan
mitutoyo
atiqah
kindaichi_hajime
teri-chan
joejambul
putrilinz
raidizh AR
ogGy
Quraisya
kamikase30
Razi_IBM
kmicaz
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cmne nk atasi rse rendah diri ...
redze- Ahli Baharu
- Gender : Male Number of posts : 69
Location : terbang mengelilingi dunia tanpa berduit
Registration date : 18/02/2009
redze- Ahli Baharu
- Gender : Male Number of posts : 69
Location : terbang mengelilingi dunia tanpa berduit
Registration date : 18/02/2009
raidizh AR wrote:funkwasabi wrote:tp cmner nk hilang kn?? gler tak selesa sbb slalu ada perasaan cmtu...
ko nk ilangkn rase rendah diri kn? bkn idung kn? maka ko kne set balik la mindset ko 2.. b +ve.. hence all d +ve thgs will cm out itself
pecayelah.. walopn ayat ak mcm berterabur je ni, ko paham kn? ak dlu pn pemalu.. nk nek pentas pn tanak.. segan.. skrg ok sket da
minda mengawal sume tingkah laku dan gerak geri ko.. kalo ko pk mnde elok, maka elok la die
boleh tak ajarkan camne nak ilangkan rendah diri n pendiam tuh?
mjmax15- Ahli
- Gender : Male Number of posts : 522
Location : Heritage Waterfront City
Job/hobbies : D-Sign-Ner / PC Gaming
Registration date : 14/02/2009
nk tau jugak petua tu 
raidizh AR- Moderators
- Gender : Male Number of posts : 1618
Age : 65
Registration date : 24/04/2009
kalo nk cter ak pnye pemalu, mmg memalukan la.. hahahha.. xdela.. ak mmg dr kecik pediam/ pemalu..
kalo ad org dtg umah, kompom senyap je dlm bilik.. xbebunyik lgsg! mase ak skolah rendah, parent ak siap risau lg tgk ke-pasif-an ak
smpi ad 1 mase, ckgu suh ak kuar g bilik guru amikkn buku die yg tertggl.. alasan die, sbb xpenah tgk ak kuar klas
jarang berganjak dr kusi.. kalo suh becakap, slow je suara.. dan perkara ni berlarutan smpi la ak skolah menengah
mase masuk secondary, ak 1st tym masuk skolah campur laki pmpn.. bapak la segan gle.. nk bgn dr kusi pn ak teragak2 sbb rase cm ade je org pndg
tp sume tu berubah pas ak masuk uitm.. kos yg ak amik ni memerlukan ak rajin bercakap/menipu/kelentong/beda'ah/public speaking blablablabla
ble ak dipaksa dan terpaksa bercakap, lama2 ak jadi da xheran kalo nk bercakap lg
selalunye ak bayangkn bahawa ak la org plg pndai, dan org yg mendgr sume xtau pape... bak kate org tua2, prektis mek perfek
maka, byk2 kn la berhadapan ngn kelemahan kita.. lama2 kita akn berjaya konker
kalo ad org dtg umah, kompom senyap je dlm bilik.. xbebunyik lgsg! mase ak skolah rendah, parent ak siap risau lg tgk ke-pasif-an ak
smpi ad 1 mase, ckgu suh ak kuar g bilik guru amikkn buku die yg tertggl.. alasan die, sbb xpenah tgk ak kuar klas
jarang berganjak dr kusi.. kalo suh becakap, slow je suara.. dan perkara ni berlarutan smpi la ak skolah menengah
mase masuk secondary, ak 1st tym masuk skolah campur laki pmpn.. bapak la segan gle.. nk bgn dr kusi pn ak teragak2 sbb rase cm ade je org pndg
tp sume tu berubah pas ak masuk uitm.. kos yg ak amik ni memerlukan ak rajin bercakap/menipu/kelentong/beda'ah/public speaking blablablabla
ble ak dipaksa dan terpaksa bercakap, lama2 ak jadi da xheran kalo nk bercakap lg
selalunye ak bayangkn bahawa ak la org plg pndai, dan org yg mendgr sume xtau pape... bak kate org tua2, prektis mek perfek
maka, byk2 kn la berhadapan ngn kelemahan kita.. lama2 kita akn berjaya konker
kindaichi_hajime- Ahli Rajin
- Number of posts : 1012
Age : 39
Location : KL
Job/hobbies : Tengok bintang2..
Registration date : 25/04/2009
aku kt skola rndah mmg pmalu giler...
kt skola mnngah pn pmalu gak....mayb sbb aku rmai pminatt...
kt u pn aku malu gak..
tp cm rai laa...course aku dlu kne byk berckp...
skang ni muke aku cm da xder perasaan...
cme ngan as je aku segan2..
kt skola mnngah pn pmalu gak....mayb sbb aku rmai pminatt...
kt u pn aku malu gak..
tp cm rai laa...course aku dlu kne byk berckp...
skang ni muke aku cm da xder perasaan...
cme ngan as je aku segan2..
raidizh AR- Moderators
- Gender : Male Number of posts : 1618
Age : 65
Registration date : 24/04/2009
ceitt... tamo tggl gak die punye adila tuh...
segan biar kne cara.. kang segan sgt... lari aweks ko
segan biar kne cara.. kang segan sgt... lari aweks ko
kindaichi_hajime- Ahli Rajin
- Number of posts : 1012
Age : 39
Location : KL
Job/hobbies : Tengok bintang2..
Registration date : 25/04/2009
ui...
bkn adila laa...as...
bpe ratus kali nk ulang ni...ish3...
ala standard la cri bini segan2 silu..
bertempat la ni haa..
bkn adila laa...as...
bpe ratus kali nk ulang ni...ish3...
ala standard la cri bini segan2 silu..
bertempat la ni haa..
iznie- Ahli Baharu
- Gender : Female Number of posts : 243
Age : 38
Location : BUMI ALLAH
Job/hobbies : GIGIT KUKU
Registration date : 07/10/2009
tingkatkan keyakinan diri...
de-ciloq- Ahli Baharu
- Gender : Male Number of posts : 55
Age : 39
Location : hulu kg jawa
Job/hobbies : gaming
Registration date : 18/07/2009
aku pun pemalu arrr...tapi dah meningkat dewasa ni,cube untuk berubah sikit-sikit.
tengok keadaan sekeliling,then cube sesuaikan diri...hehehe.tapi still ade malu lg.
p/s:jgn ditanya namaku siapa...malu nak jawab
tengok keadaan sekeliling,then cube sesuaikan diri...hehehe.tapi still ade malu lg.
p/s:jgn ditanya namaku siapa...malu nak jawab
raidizh AR- Moderators
- Gender : Male Number of posts : 1618
Age : 65
Registration date : 24/04/2009
ok. xtnye name ko... nk tnye, name aku sape? ...hoho...gurau2... mcm mane ko kurgkn tuh? tgk sekeliling je ke? hebat..
de-ciloq- Ahli Baharu
- Gender : Male Number of posts : 55
Age : 39
Location : hulu kg jawa
Job/hobbies : gaming
Registration date : 18/07/2009
ish tak la hebat mana...sekadar mencube untuk berubah je...hehehe
kindaichi_hajime- Ahli Rajin
- Number of posts : 1012
Age : 39
Location : KL
Job/hobbies : Tengok bintang2..
Registration date : 25/04/2009
sedia ntuk berubah...
waaa...
waaa...
kamikase30- Moderators
- Number of posts : 410
Registration date : 02/03/2009
sape ade masalah ni kat sini???
Jedi- Ahli
- Gender : Male Number of posts : 925
Registration date : 13/02/2009
(Salam)
Jadi insan yang bertakwa.
Takde la rasa rendah diri lagi.
Jadi insan yang bertakwa.
Takde la rasa rendah diri lagi.
Falcon- Ahli Baharu
- Gender : Male Number of posts : 258
Location : Ada la dekat-dekat korang tuh.
Job/hobbies : Games... games.. games.. dan duit.
Registration date : 27/11/2009
sebenarnya dari satu segi rendah diri ni bagus.. kita rasa inferior terhadap semua orang.. dan sekaligus menambahkan pergantung harapan pada Allah SWT. Itu bagus sebenarnya...
antara21- Ahli Baharu
- Number of posts : 318
Age : 36
Location : UP
Registration date : 13/02/2009
humble ek? oh itu bagus~... camne nak atasi? tengok keadaan gak la kan...bukan semua tempat atau situasi kita kena rendah diri..
tapi dalam kehidupan sumustinya kena rendah diri sebagai hamba tuhan, tu tak dinafikan...kan? cuma alongside menjalani hidup tu, ada gak masanya kita kena tampil dan terampil!
berubah? mmg..manusia berubah..manusia mengubah.. yang kita perlu ialah desire, ruang dan peluang.. ^^..
waktu interview keje, better rendah diri la... waktu menegakkan kebenaran, better berani mati la..hehe
tapi dalam kehidupan sumustinya kena rendah diri sebagai hamba tuhan, tu tak dinafikan...kan? cuma alongside menjalani hidup tu, ada gak masanya kita kena tampil dan terampil!
berubah? mmg..manusia berubah..manusia mengubah.. yang kita perlu ialah desire, ruang dan peluang.. ^^..
waktu interview keje, better rendah diri la... waktu menegakkan kebenaran, better berani mati la..hehe
mjmax15- Ahli
- Gender : Male Number of posts : 522
Location : Heritage Waterfront City
Job/hobbies : D-Sign-Ner / PC Gaming
Registration date : 14/02/2009
waktu interview memang sebetulnya kena rendah diri tapi bila bagi hujah @ speaking kena confident. jgn la main "ya" "ya" shj.
sekadar pendapat 10sen aku.
aku pun x paham samada aku nih jenis humble, pendiam, submissive atau pemalu.
sekadar pendapat 10sen aku.
aku pun x paham samada aku nih jenis humble, pendiam, submissive atau pemalu.
Jedi- Ahli
- Gender : Male Number of posts : 925
Registration date : 13/02/2009
Aku dah tua 
Jadi humble, pendiam dan pemalu gak.
Tapi peramah pun ya juga.
Tak bape suka nak menyampuk kalau tidak ditanya.
Rajin2 beri salam (pada orang Islam) dan ucap selamat (pada yang bukan Islam)
Inshallah, orang akan suka pada kita.
Dia tak jawab salam pun takpe, beri salam tu sunat...jawab tu wajib.
Peluang mudah nak dapat pahala...rugi tak rebut
Jadi humble, pendiam dan pemalu gak.
Tapi peramah pun ya juga.
Tak bape suka nak menyampuk kalau tidak ditanya.
- Spoiler:
- Pernah ada sorang awek ni mengamuk (marah kat orang lain) belakang aku.
Aku buat selamba jer.
Lepas puas mengamuk dia mintak maaf kat aku kekalau ganggu aku bekerja.
Rajin2 beri salam (pada orang Islam) dan ucap selamat (pada yang bukan Islam)
Inshallah, orang akan suka pada kita.
Dia tak jawab salam pun takpe, beri salam tu sunat...jawab tu wajib.
Peluang mudah nak dapat pahala...rugi tak rebut
Falcon- Ahli Baharu
- Gender : Male Number of posts : 258
Location : Ada la dekat-dekat korang tuh.
Job/hobbies : Games... games.. games.. dan duit.
Registration date : 27/11/2009
mjmax15 wrote:waktu interview memang sebetulnya kena rendah diri tapi bila bagi hujah @ speaking kena confident. jgn la main "ya" "ya" shj.
sekadar pendapat 10sen aku.
aku pun x paham samada aku nih jenis humble, pendiam, submissive atau pemalu.
sepupu aku kerja penemuduga. betul la ko tulis tuh... kalau banyak ya ya jer diorang cross terus. REJECT dgn cop kaler merah.
Jedi wrote:Aku dah tua
Jadi humble, pendiam dan pemalu gak.
Tapi peramah pun ya juga.
Tak bape suka nak menyampuk kalau tidak ditanya.Elok gak ada sifat pemalu sebab salah satu sifat para Nabi.
- Spoiler:
Aku buat selamba jer.
Lepas puas mengamuk dia mintak maaf kat aku kekalau ganggu aku bekerja.
Rajin2 beri salam (pada orang Islam) dan ucap selamat (pada yang bukan Islam)
Inshallah, orang akan suka pada kita.
Dia tak jawab salam pun takpe, beri salam tu sunat...jawab tu wajib.
Peluang mudah nak dapat pahala...rugi tak rebut
huh?? dah tua ke?? ye ye jer..
Part spoiler ko tuh best la.. LOL
Jedi- Ahli
- Gender : Male Number of posts : 925
Registration date : 13/02/2009
Tu awek yang aku tengah usher tu lah.
Pelik sket kan pe'el dia?
Aku ada bitau dia yang aku 'takut' tengok dia mengamuk.
Dia bitau, dia mengamuk bersebab
kamikase30- Moderators
- Number of posts : 410
Registration date : 02/03/2009
cmne nk atasi rse rendah diri????
You all ni semua kena sumbat dengan information,
baru masalah-masalah macam ni boleh di take over..
Salah satu cara adalah dengan develope self esteem.
Kat bawah ni aku copy paste bagi you all confident sikit.
5 Tips to Create Greater Self Esteem and Confidence.
But now, i can take over all kind of this problem.
Yeahhhh, now, is time to build my destiny, my next plan..
You all ni semua kena sumbat dengan information,
baru masalah-masalah macam ni boleh di take over..
Salah satu cara adalah dengan develope self esteem.
Kat bawah ni aku copy paste bagi you all confident sikit.
5 Tips to Create Greater Self Esteem and Confidence.
- Spoiler:
- Almost everyone would like to have more self esteem. Even people who already have healthy confidence can usually benefit by improving their level of self esteem. The following five self esteem tips can help you feel more self-assured, and more in control in your life -- no matter what is going on around you.
Self Esteem Tip Number One:
Every individual has both strengths and weaknesses. While most of us feel very good about our strengths, we usually have negative feelings about our perceived weaknesses. But one of the best self esteem tips is to practice complete acceptance of both your strengths AND your weaknesses.
It's easy for us to feel confident about areas of life that come easily to us. But a sign of real self esteem in a person is when they are comfortable with their limitations and weaknesses too. Become comfortable with your weaknesses, and learn to practice acceptance. After all, your weaknesses are part of you too, and they deserve the same respect as your strengths.
Self Esteem Tip Number Two:
Practice positivity as a way of life. Most of us go through our day on "autopilot" to a great extent. Unfortunately, if your autopilot is thinking in a negative or self-critical way, over time this can have a damaging effect on your self esteem and confidence. And all the self esteem tips in the world can't really help you if you're constantly reinforcing bad "thinking habits" by thinking negatively.
The solution is to practice being an unashamedly positive person. Look for the silver lining in every situation. This is not being a Pollyanna; but rather, it is retraining your mind to look for the best in yourself and in other people. Over time, a positive mental outlook always produces greater self esteem and feelings of self-worth.
Self Esteem Tip Number Three:
Build yourself "up" instead of putting yourself "down." Everyone has an inner voice, and some of our inner voices tend to constantly criticize our every thought, behavior and attribute. You wouldn't put up with a friend or acquaintance who constantly criticized you this way, so why put up with an inner voice that does the same thing?
A good way to build up your self esteem is to take a time out each day to ponder a few "loaded questions." Here are a few examples of the type of questions I'm talking about:
"Why am I so resourceful and confident?"
"Why do I feel so good about me?"
"What are my best qualities?"
The idea is to slowly repeat these questions to yourself. You don't have to worry about the answers (your subconscious will find them for you). Just repeat the questions in a relaxed manner for a minute or two. If you like, you can close your eyes and meditate on the questions while you do this exercise.
Self Esteem Tip Number Four:
Most of us hate to fail; in fact, one of the most common reasons for self esteem problems is feeling like a "failure" because of some situation in the past that did not go well. But failure is a part of life -- it is something that happens to all of us sometimes and nothing that should shake your self esteem.
Many great business leaders, for example, have been fired from important jobs, and had several companies and products that were failures before they hit it big. Failure is something we should learn from, but not something that should ruin our self esteem. That's why being comfortable with both success and failure is such an important self esteem tip.
Self Esteem Tip Number Five:
Be realistic with your goals. There are very few self esteem tips as important as setting realistic goals, so that you climb the ladder of success one rung at a time. Trying to bite off more than you can chew in any endeavor is a surefire way to lose self esteem in yourself and your abilities.
Creating real self esteem in your life is a matter of establishing a pattern of success. You can start very small, with little victories. Then, proceed to build on your smaller victories in order to create more and more success. In this manner, self esteem builds one step at a time, and you have a firm foundation of successful action to build upon.
All of these simple self esteem tips, when used together, can build a positive self image quickly. Don't underestimate the effectiveness of these tips just because they are simple. The "right" simple actions can lead to remarkable results in building self esteem. The most important thing is to be consistent in your efforts.
Practice your "loaded questions" daily, set realistic goals, and practice self-acceptance of both your strengths and weaknesses on a daily basis. Following all of these simple self esteem tips will lead to positive changes very quickly.
But now, i can take over all kind of this problem.
Yeahhhh, now, is time to build my destiny, my next plan..
mjmax15- Ahli
- Gender : Male Number of posts : 522
Location : Heritage Waterfront City
Job/hobbies : D-Sign-Ner / PC Gaming
Registration date : 14/02/2009
tapi camner plak kalau dgn masalah ni?
tak taulah pasal apa dgn aku nih.
kalau gender female yg baru jumpa/kenal mmg susah nk eye-contact bila bercakap. selalu mata kadang2 tgk kat screen pc, org sebelah dia lah. x akan tengok muka dia sebetulnya. mulalah lain kali jumpa x cam/kenal.hahaha
aku suspect aku ni mungkin jenis pemalu yang amat kot. dgn laki2 ok ajer.
macam ni hampeh nk tackle.
kalau pasal job career, no problem, alhamdulillah, bos aku sentiasa confident dgn job diserahkan. staff pun beres dan no hal.
brief dgn kastemer pun ok. diorang no hal tapi kastemer pompuan (cik adik/cik kak) ada masalah sket ar...banyak kot. biasanya aku suruh mmber aku ajer uruskan. haha.
pernah sekali tu aku kena jugak jumpa sorang awek tuh..mmber aku x reti nk terangkan. camner ar tu tiba2 dia senyum tanya apsal muka aku nampak merah? hah? makin merah muka aku dah dia tanya macam tu..aku wat bodo ajerlah sambil terangkan kat dia psl artwork..blabla..dia dah gelak2. tak gune betul.
sebelum tu dah try concertrate nk terangkan psl kerja tapi aku tgk dia senyum2 tu menyebabkan dia tanya psl muka aku..walaweii..!
kalau dah biasa jumpa no problem ar..sembang2 ntahapapa pun no prob. baru kenal,..mmg jammed!
tak taulah pasal apa dgn aku nih.
kalau gender female yg baru jumpa/kenal mmg susah nk eye-contact bila bercakap. selalu mata kadang2 tgk kat screen pc, org sebelah dia lah. x akan tengok muka dia sebetulnya. mulalah lain kali jumpa x cam/kenal.hahaha
aku suspect aku ni mungkin jenis pemalu yang amat kot. dgn laki2 ok ajer.
macam ni hampeh nk tackle.
kalau pasal job career, no problem, alhamdulillah, bos aku sentiasa confident dgn job diserahkan. staff pun beres dan no hal.
brief dgn kastemer pun ok. diorang no hal tapi kastemer pompuan (cik adik/cik kak) ada masalah sket ar...banyak kot. biasanya aku suruh mmber aku ajer uruskan. haha.
pernah sekali tu aku kena jugak jumpa sorang awek tuh..mmber aku x reti nk terangkan. camner ar tu tiba2 dia senyum tanya apsal muka aku nampak merah? hah? makin merah muka aku dah dia tanya macam tu..aku wat bodo ajerlah sambil terangkan kat dia psl artwork..blabla..dia dah gelak2. tak gune betul.
sebelum tu dah try concertrate nk terangkan psl kerja tapi aku tgk dia senyum2 tu menyebabkan dia tanya psl muka aku..walaweii..!
kalau dah biasa jumpa no problem ar..sembang2 ntahapapa pun no prob. baru kenal,..mmg jammed!
awi216- Ahli Baharu
- Number of posts : 174
Registration date : 02/03/2009
mjmax15 wrote:tapi camner plak kalau dgn masalah ni?
tak taulah pasal apa dgn aku nih.
kalau gender female yg baru jumpa/kenal mmg susah nk eye-contact bila bercakap. selalu mata kadang2 tgk kat screen pc, org sebelah dia lah. x akan tengok muka dia sebetulnya. mulalah lain kali jumpa x cam/kenal.hahaha
aku suspect aku ni mungkin jenis pemalu yang amat kot. dgn laki2 ok ajer.
macam ni hampeh nk tackle.
kalau pasal job career, no problem, alhamdulillah, bos aku sentiasa confident dgn job diserahkan. staff pun beres dan no hal.
brief dgn kastemer pun ok. diorang no hal tapi kastemer pompuan (cik adik/cik kak) ada masalah sket ar...banyak kot. biasanya aku suruh mmber aku ajer uruskan. haha.
pernah sekali tu aku kena jugak jumpa sorang awek tuh..mmber aku x reti nk terangkan. camner ar tu tiba2 dia senyum tanya apsal muka aku nampak merah? hah? makin merah muka aku dah dia tanya macam tu..aku wat bodo ajerlah sambil terangkan kat dia psl artwork..blabla..dia dah gelak2. tak gune betul.
sebelum tu dah try concertrate nk terangkan psl kerja tapi aku tgk dia senyum2 tu menyebabkan dia tanya psl muka aku..walaweii..!
kalau dah biasa jumpa no problem ar..sembang2 ntahapapa pun no prob. baru kenal,..mmg jammed!
Aku pun lebih kurang spesis ngan ko la mjmax15. Susah btul nak mulakan perbualan ngan pompuan2 ni. Tambah2 yg jenis mcam model(jenis lawa). Rasa kelu je. Tp kalu bab kerja insyaAllah, no problem.
Jedi- Ahli
- Gender : Male Number of posts : 925
Registration date : 13/02/2009
Pompuan ni kekadang ada yang lagi nakal tau.
Aku pernah gak kena usik masa jadi supervisor data entry.
Awek tu selamba jer cakap suka tengok aku etc.
Padahal dengar2 citer dah bertunang dah.
Inshallah, makin meningkat umur korang...takde la malu2 sangat.
Tapi batas2 pastikan dikekalkan la.
Silap haribulan, dengan gerakan mata jer korang dah leh goda dia...hehe.
Tatap wajah, mata, kening, bibir,gigi...cair dia.
Pernah aku sembang dekat2 sampai nampak ruang roma wajah dia.
Gigi dia walaupun tak cantik tapi bersih giler.
Astagfirullah...
Aku alhamdulillah takde masalah sangat.
Cuma pening sket kalau awek tu pakai seksi sangat atau terlalu menggiurkan.
Takut dituduh pervert sebab kena hati2 dengan mata kita.
Aku pernah kena masa temuduga dengan awek ciri2 Sharifah Sofea
Aku pernah gak kena usik masa jadi supervisor data entry.
Awek tu selamba jer cakap suka tengok aku etc.
Padahal dengar2 citer dah bertunang dah.
Inshallah, makin meningkat umur korang...takde la malu2 sangat.
Tapi batas2 pastikan dikekalkan la.
Silap haribulan, dengan gerakan mata jer korang dah leh goda dia...hehe.
Tatap wajah, mata, kening, bibir,gigi...cair dia.
Pernah aku sembang dekat2 sampai nampak ruang roma wajah dia.
Gigi dia walaupun tak cantik tapi bersih giler.
Astagfirullah...
Aku alhamdulillah takde masalah sangat.
Cuma pening sket kalau awek tu pakai seksi sangat atau terlalu menggiurkan.
Takut dituduh pervert sebab kena hati2 dengan mata kita.
Aku pernah kena masa temuduga dengan awek ciri2 Sharifah Sofea
awi216- Ahli Baharu
- Number of posts : 174
Registration date : 02/03/2009
tu la pasal kan. Kalu kita "TERtengok" dituduh pervert. Sedangkan bkan kita nak tengok pun. Seksi dedah-mendedah ni umpama magnet yg asyik dok tarik biji mata kita je. Ko ni mcam2 la jedi, nampak ruang roma la, mcam sharifah sofea la... hehe