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Aku buka topic ni just nak mengetahui macam mana la korang boleh tackle pasangan korang.Kalau boleh kongsi la bersama
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iznie
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Macam mana korang tackle pasangan korang
darkpink- Ahli Baharu
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darkpink wrote:Aku buka topic ni just nak mengetahui macam mana la korang boleh tackle pasangan korang.Kalau boleh kongsi la bersama
Aku tengah build up benda ni trought my lense. Maybe U can got Some Idea.
The Art Of How To Approach A Woman Finaly Revealed!
Still di peringkat awal, dan benda ini akan jadi rujukan di seluruh dunia.
I'll upgrade steps by steps.
Enjoy........
p/s: A few items aku jual, jangan beli, kalau nak beli bagi tau aku dulu..
Miss U.A- Ahli
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nih topic cr mcmne kita tackle couple tak kisah la sape tackle sape kn...
ok cite aku dulu, aku yg tackle bf aku....sbb die nih sorg yg pemalu amat...aku lak time tuh jenis yg epi go lucky...
btw aku knl ngn bf aku dulu thru 1 kursus yg di anjurkn oleh pihak universiti kitorg...ditakdirkan aku lak satu group ngn die...ms ice-breaking tuh mmg malu nk ckp tol...die juz bgtau nm je kat member group..pastu aku arr wat tny lebih2...hahhaa...
then selama 3hari tuh, aku cuba highlite diri dlm group..sbnrnye sj je nk bg die sedar 'kehadiran' aku nih kn...aku cuba tego2...pastu senyum bila jumpa die...but at da same tyme aku ttp tak tunjuk sgt yg aku suka dia...(aahh pandai2 le pikir sendiri kn)...yelah aku pompuan, kang lebih2 org ckp gedik lak...so wat2 biase je...aku mintak no fon die pun aku buat mcm tak sngaja la...so kira cm tak nmpk sgt la yg aku nk no die tuh...
hurmmmm..tp tuh dulu la...skang mcm da takde harapan je...ntahla, maybe couple lm sgt kot...msg2 da mcm 'kosong' je...hahhaa..
ok cite aku dulu, aku yg tackle bf aku....sbb die nih sorg yg pemalu amat...aku lak time tuh jenis yg epi go lucky...
btw aku knl ngn bf aku dulu thru 1 kursus yg di anjurkn oleh pihak universiti kitorg...ditakdirkan aku lak satu group ngn die...ms ice-breaking tuh mmg malu nk ckp tol...die juz bgtau nm je kat member group..pastu aku arr wat tny lebih2...hahhaa...
then selama 3hari tuh, aku cuba highlite diri dlm group..sbnrnye sj je nk bg die sedar 'kehadiran' aku nih kn...aku cuba tego2...pastu senyum bila jumpa die...but at da same tyme aku ttp tak tunjuk sgt yg aku suka dia...(aahh pandai2 le pikir sendiri kn)...yelah aku pompuan, kang lebih2 org ckp gedik lak...so wat2 biase je...aku mintak no fon die pun aku buat mcm tak sngaja la...so kira cm tak nmpk sgt la yg aku nk no die tuh...
hurmmmm..tp tuh dulu la...skang mcm da takde harapan je...ntahla, maybe couple lm sgt kot...msg2 da mcm 'kosong' je...hahhaa..
kamikase30- Moderators
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so what your point.??
It's look like your love macam dah 'pudar'..
Polish balik 'loving emotion tu'.
Heres a few idea. Makes it clear like crystal.
How to Upgrade Your Relationship.
Enjoy..
It's look like your love macam dah 'pudar'..
Polish balik 'loving emotion tu'.
Heres a few idea. Makes it clear like crystal.
How to Upgrade Your Relationship.
- Spoiler:
- How come he won't commit? Will he ever be ready for a more serious relationship? Are you wasting your time on a serial dater? Are you through with casual relationships? When you reach a stage in your life where you want to move things on emotionally, it can be difficult to know how to go about discussing it with your guy. If you love your guy but he won't commit, find out how to upgrade your relationship the easy way.
Relationship upgrades can come about in a number of ways. If he's still dating other girls, well, get yourself back out there and see some other guys. If you've been with this guy for some time already, he will not be happy about this. It will help him to understand where you're coming from when you tell him you're not comfortable with him continuing to date those other girls. Sometimes you have to put the obvious right in front of a guy's face to make him get it!
If you don't like the idea of dating other guys again, get your own life back on track. Take your mom out to dinner, go to the day spa with your girlfriends, book a holiday without him. He will soon get the message that the life you have with him right now is not enough for you. He'll also be missing having you around all the time and will come to realize how much you mean to him.
Get yourself a makeover! Go for a new hairstyle, a fresh color, update your wardrobe a little. He cannot fail to notice that you're looking really good right now, after all he IS seeing less of you these days. Hmm, now why is that? Maybe he should buck his ideas up and make your relationship exclusive before some other guy catches your eye!
As you start to have a busier social life, you'll be less available to your man. Maybe you were coming across as being a little desperate before and now that you're around less, he sees you as you really are - an intelligent, busy woman with a vibrant, interesting life. This may be enough to make him see that if he won't commit, he may lose you forever.
- Spoiler:
- Are you a hopeless romantic? No? Not to worry! It is not necessarily a bad thing. As a realist or a pragmatist, you approach love and relationships very much the same way you approach other aspects of your life, with logic and reason. You like the idea of love at first sight and soul mates, but it is more the subject of fairy tales than reality, right? You enjoy dating and the thrill of a new relationship, but you hold no preconceived notions or expectations. You believe relationships require perseverance and work, with common interests and mutual respect at the core.
If you are not a hopeless romantic, but are dating or living with one, there are some practical steps you can take to connect with them more. You do not need to be a hopeless romantic to relate to one. What are the things that initially attracted you to them the most? If the fact that they are a hopeless romantic is one of those things, you may have a softer side you have not yet explored. Try to see the world as they do and talk with them about it. Your perception and theirs is worthy of the attention.
Exploring your differences and similarities can be fun and amusing. Keep in mind that part of the romance is doing something you would not usually do. It is something you do because you care and you know your partner would enjoy. The steps to being romantic do not need to involve huge changes. Sometimes the romance is in the details. If you do not usually hold their hand when walking next to your partner, try it the next time you are strolling through the mall, or when going to dinner. Are you a hopeless romantic? No, but you enjoy making your partner happy.
When your logical and reasonable side rules, you may be viewed as cold and uncaring. From your perspective, making informed decisions are the best way to live life. For a hopeless romantic, it is the ability to be swept away with inspiration and making one person happy that makes life worth living. The hopeless romantic does not need grand gestures. Taking walks at sunset or sending a text that says, "I love you" will make them happy. The hopeless romantic and the pragmatist may be the best match of all, each balancing the other. Are you a hopeless romantic? No? Your partner may thank you.
- Spoiler:
- Want to make him feel you truly love him? Want to make your special guy really feel like he is your special guy? Are you worried that if you tell him how you feel he'll run a mile? Making a guy feel loved does not have to involve a complicated diagram, nor does it have to involve a serenade and a marriage proposal. If you really want your man to feel wanted. If you want to make him feel you truly love him, you only need follow this advice.
Don't Show Too Much Affection
This might sound like contradictory advice but if you understand male psychology it actually makes a great deal of sense. Men usually take a little longer to form strong emotional bonds, so by showing his too much affection early on, you run the risk of scaring him away. He might not be ready for the mushy stuff just yet. Instead, you should show him affection in different ways. Try to make him feel comfortable, respected and interesting. Stroke his ego a little. This is one type of affection he'll never tire of.
Don't Open Up Too Fast
This makes sense for the very same reason. If you open up too fast he might think that you are overemotional. He'll also feel pressured to open up too and he might not be ready to do so. It might sound strange but of you want to make him feel you truly love him you shouldn't be the first to say 'I love you'. Wait until he's ready and don't put any pressure on him.
Move at His Pace
Because men take longer to form an emotional bond, it's important that you let the relationship move at a pace that's comfortable for him. Let him lead. Take your cues from him. Be patient and don't force the relationship to move forward. He'll appreciate this and it will make him feel you truly love him.
Enjoy..
darkpink- Ahli Baharu
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power r ko kamikase.aku nak tengok dulu r.yang lain takde dah ke??
kamikase30- Moderators
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darkpink wrote:power r ko kamikase.aku nak tengok dulu r.yang lain takde dah ke??
lain-lain maksud ko ap??
By end of this month aku nak achive 100 lenses.
Sebenarnye x boleh tunjuk sangat - COnfidential tu.
But ada a few yang untuk trial tak kisah.
And kalau ada kena mengena dengan topic slowly aku akan show.
kalu tak aku punye orang lain punya..
power lak maksud ko apa??
memang aku stdy human sains,
tak susah sangat nak 'consult' people.
teri-chan- Moderators
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in my case i dont really sure sapa courting sapa. coz when we sit n talk, we realise that yg aku drop hints kt dia, n dia drop hints kt aku. i guess aku mula kan dulu kot.
aku mulakan ngn friendship (he was my group leader when i was working part time), pastu talk a little (hehe aku tak rasa little pun) pastu aku cr evry peluang yg ada utk berckp ngn dia. rupanya dia pn sama. next thing we know... dia propose aku in the most delicate way n now we're married.
but kami pn ada ups n downs jugk hehehe..
aku mulakan ngn friendship (he was my group leader when i was working part time), pastu talk a little (hehe aku tak rasa little pun) pastu aku cr evry peluang yg ada utk berckp ngn dia. rupanya dia pn sama. next thing we know... dia propose aku in the most delicate way n now we're married.
but kami pn ada ups n downs jugk hehehe..
darkpink- Ahli Baharu
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takde org lain dah ke???
kamikase30- Moderators
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darkpink wrote:takde org lain dah ke???
relex bro. forum ni memang x ramai orang.
sebab selepas achive a few (30 kalau tak silap) post baru boleh masuk sini.
kira under water lak jugak.
so, ko betul ke nak tackle 'someone'.
or ko just nak tahu cara nak tackle someone.
ok, ko bagi detail A-Z situation ko and awek tu. aku guide ko cmne nak buat.
***AMARAN***
Cara aku berdasarkan Human Sains Technology.
Agak Advance juga method ni.
p/s: just time aku free aku tulis k.
darkpink- Ahli Baharu
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takdela mane yang berpengalaman semua rai dan lain-lain.selalu laju je
raidizh AR- Moderators
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kehkehkeh... sbb ak xpenah tackle laki... jap pk... penah ke?
salu ak kasik jelingan manja je, tesungkur haa terus depan ak.. kehkeh.. gurau2
tackle bergantung pada type of awek yg ko usha tu... lain pmpn, lain cara approach
cube ko citer awek ko ske tu jenis cemane
mase zaman muda2 aku dlu, ak rase ex ak xde masalah besar nak tackle ak, cuma perlu sabar je.. sbb ak mmg menyakitkan hati..(ak tau)
bukan ak sorg je.. ekceli, most pmpn suke mnenguji.. ko kne paham tu
salu ak kasik jelingan manja je, tesungkur haa terus depan ak.. kehkeh.. gurau2
tackle bergantung pada type of awek yg ko usha tu... lain pmpn, lain cara approach
cube ko citer awek ko ske tu jenis cemane
mase zaman muda2 aku dlu, ak rase ex ak xde masalah besar nak tackle ak, cuma perlu sabar je.. sbb ak mmg menyakitkan hati..(ak tau)
bukan ak sorg je.. ekceli, most pmpn suke mnenguji.. ko kne paham tu
lorfaz- Ahli Baharu
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aku x pandai nak tackle pompuan (pendiam la kononnyer)...
nk dijadikan citer, aku melepas sorg pompuan ni sebabnyer x brani nk bukak mulut utk approach die...
pas die da kawen, baru die ckp " nape dlu x nk tgr saye"???? ahhh ruginyer......
pesanan aku, kalo da suke kat seseorg tu, khususnyer guys... be gentleman.. Face to face...... biar nyesal dulu, jgn nyesal kemudian..........
nk dijadikan citer, aku melepas sorg pompuan ni sebabnyer x brani nk bukak mulut utk approach die...
pas die da kawen, baru die ckp " nape dlu x nk tgr saye"???? ahhh ruginyer......
pesanan aku, kalo da suke kat seseorg tu, khususnyer guys... be gentleman.. Face to face...... biar nyesal dulu, jgn nyesal kemudian..........
Razi_IBM- Ahli Rajin
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lembu kalo nak mengawan takyah tekel pun.hambat je.
hampeh- Ahli
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macam ni
khairul anwar- Moderators
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aku nie pemalu, kalo aku suke seseorang pun aku wat bodoh jer'
macam jual mahal la, tapi aku still cari peluang tuk cakap dengan dia
depend kat situasi la,
tapi aku tak penah couple2 nie
nak kate tak hensem memang pun,
pemalu (sket) kot
tapi aku dapat rase kan yang diri aku nie romantik kot (ceh)
tapi ape pun, sebelum nak jatuh cinta ka apa ka,
berkawan dulu.. kecantikan luaran nie kadang2 mengaburi sihat sebenar dia
macam jual mahal la, tapi aku still cari peluang tuk cakap dengan dia
depend kat situasi la,
tapi aku tak penah couple2 nie
nak kate tak hensem memang pun,
pemalu (sket) kot
tapi aku dapat rase kan yang diri aku nie romantik kot (ceh)
tapi ape pun, sebelum nak jatuh cinta ka apa ka,
berkawan dulu.. kecantikan luaran nie kadang2 mengaburi sihat sebenar dia
- Spoiler:
- woit, jgn spam sini, g sembang2 sane
raidizh AR- Moderators
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ohohohoho.. ramai lak jejaka pemalu.. bagusla.. malu itu indah
dlu mase zaman blaja, ak penah la ter-admire org, tapi masalahnye, asal ak admire org je, kompom member kebas.. ceitt
tapi bkn salah die pun.. ak admire dari jauh je.. kehkeh.. dah rezki mmber ak..
kalo ak minat mane2 org, besenye ak xkn amik peluang pon nk bercakap ngn die.. selalunya ak mengagumi die dari kejauhan (ece)
biasanya, kalo lagi ak suke org tu, lagi ak jauhkan diri.. ak sndr pun xtau kenape
dlu mase zaman blaja, ak penah la ter-admire org, tapi masalahnye, asal ak admire org je, kompom member kebas.. ceitt
tapi bkn salah die pun.. ak admire dari jauh je.. kehkeh.. dah rezki mmber ak..
kalo ak minat mane2 org, besenye ak xkn amik peluang pon nk bercakap ngn die.. selalunya ak mengagumi die dari kejauhan (ece)
biasanya, kalo lagi ak suke org tu, lagi ak jauhkan diri.. ak sndr pun xtau kenape
- Spoiler:
- kalo nak spam sila ke sembang??? o yeah? ober mai ded bodi pes.. korg spam kat sane kang ak yg kne dlu
permbetulan: kalo nak spam sila ke forumyohiflain.. kehkehkeh
Jedi- Ahli
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Zaman skang ni tak kisah sapa mulakan dulu.
Guna orang tengah pun ok.
Memula tegur2 gak.
Sembang2.
Kalau dapat SMS...ok gak.
Tapi takde la nak terus terjah kata aku suka kat dia.
SMS biasa2 dulu.
Respon ok...SMS lagi...dan lagi...dan lagi
Risik2 gak dia ni single ke apa ke.
Kalau dah ada yang punya, aku tak SMS dah
Malas...BUANG MASA
Kalau dia single, peluang terbuka dan semangat berkobar.
Dan sebaliknya.
Guna orang tengah pun ok.
Memula tegur2 gak.
Sembang2.
Kalau dapat SMS...ok gak.
Tapi takde la nak terus terjah kata aku suka kat dia.
SMS biasa2 dulu.
Respon ok...SMS lagi...dan lagi...dan lagi
Risik2 gak dia ni single ke apa ke.
Kalau dah ada yang punya, aku tak SMS dah
Malas...BUANG MASA
Kalau dia single, peluang terbuka dan semangat berkobar.
Dan sebaliknya.
iznie- Ahli Baharu
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ai tak menekel, ai di takel
darkpink- Ahli Baharu
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iznie wrote:ai tak menekel, ai di takel
dah bagitahu la camne kau ditackle
iznie- Ahli Baharu
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lepas 3 bulan ai putus tunang, awek abang ai kenalkan dengan some1, kawan2 dia jugak la...
pastu kawan punya kawan, lepas sebulan kami jumpa kat melaka central
pastu kapel 6 bulan, break atas salah ai sendiri
pastu kawan mcm biasa balik,
memula sebulan sekali sms
pastu 2 minggu sekali ber sms
pastu seminggu sekali ber sms
pastu tetiba...
some day
enset ai berbunyi...
msg....
bunyiknye....
uffff mau pengsan saat baca msg mcm tu dr si dia (orang yang sama = x-boipren)
seminggu lepas tu, baru ai balas.
sms diterima
~~ inilah yang dikata jodoh, lari la jauh mane, putus la tahap mane... kalau ditakdirkan dia untuk kita, kembali juga kat kita. =), panjang dah mcm karangan pulak dah...
pastu kawan punya kawan, lepas sebulan kami jumpa kat melaka central
pastu kapel 6 bulan, break atas salah ai sendiri
pastu kawan mcm biasa balik,
memula sebulan sekali sms
pastu 2 minggu sekali ber sms
pastu seminggu sekali ber sms
pastu tetiba...
some day
enset ai berbunyi...
msg....
bunyiknye....
awak, will you be my wife forever???
uffff mau pengsan saat baca msg mcm tu dr si dia (orang yang sama = x-boipren)
seminggu lepas tu, baru ai balas.
yes!!! saya tak kan ulang kesilapan lepas, thanxs sebab bagi peluang ke-2
sms diterima
ini bukan peluang ke-2, tapi hargailah ape yang kita ada.
~~ inilah yang dikata jodoh, lari la jauh mane, putus la tahap mane... kalau ditakdirkan dia untuk kita, kembali juga kat kita. =), panjang dah mcm karangan pulak dah...
teri-chan- Moderators
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ah... so sweet!!!
cik abg aku pulak guna ayat mcm ni...
"saya suka tgk bulan dan bintang mlm2.. sudikah awk temankan saya tgk bulan smpai bila2?" -ayat diubah mengikut keadaan hehe-
then i'll said, yes... if you wish me to.
hehe tu 5 years ago la heheh
cik abg aku pulak guna ayat mcm ni...
"saya suka tgk bulan dan bintang mlm2.. sudikah awk temankan saya tgk bulan smpai bila2?" -ayat diubah mengikut keadaan hehe-
then i'll said, yes... if you wish me to.
hehe tu 5 years ago la heheh
khairul anwar- Moderators
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biase nye pempuan tackle aku
aku tak biase tackle2 awek nie
aku tak biase tackle2 awek nie
- Spoiler:
- tak kesian ke kalo dia jatuh tersungkur??
sakit tue,,..
raidizh AR- Moderators
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hoh? TS tersungkur time nak tackle ke? perghhh.. saham bai..sahammmm.. kehkehkeh...
Miss U.A- Ahli
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iznie wrote:lepas 3 bulan ai putus tunang, awek abang ai kenalkan dengan some1, kawan2 dia jugak la...
pastu kawan punya kawan, lepas sebulan kami jumpa kat melaka central
pastu kapel 6 bulan, break atas salah ai sendiri
pastu kawan mcm biasa balik,
memula sebulan sekali sms
pastu 2 minggu sekali ber sms
pastu seminggu sekali ber sms
pastu tetiba...
some day
enset ai berbunyi...
msg....
bunyiknye....
awak, will you be my wife forever???
uffff mau pengsan saat baca msg mcm tu dr si dia (orang yang sama = x-boipren)
seminggu lepas tu, baru ai balas.
yes!!! saya tak kan ulang kesilapan lepas, thanxs sebab bagi peluang ke-2
sms diterima
ini bukan peluang ke-2, tapi hargailah ape yang kita ada.
~~ inilah yang dikata jodoh, lari la jauh mane, putus la tahap mane... kalau ditakdirkan dia untuk kita, kembali juga kat kita. =), panjang dah mcm karangan pulak dah...
kan best kalo jd kat aku.....
sharina- Ahli Baharu
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Miss U.A wrote:
kan best kalo jd kat aku.....
xpew miss... bakal kan??sat g ad la tu.... huhhuhu... eceh...
- Spoiler:
- sory ye geng spam sikit jer... jgn mara ha....nk bg semangat cikt kat myra ni...
ngeee,,,